Cast of characters

Updated: 12/06/11

T – Last playmate. The playing was great, but there was too much personality friction.

M – A friend with benefits who disappeared for a couple months and then reappeared with a good reason for disappearing. We play once in a very blue moon. We’re still good friends and talk near daily.

D – Former dom/owner. We were together nearly three years, I think. We had what I consider to be my first actual relationship and he was my first proper dom. We had lots of ups and downs and I broke it off a couple times before finally ending it completely last year.

Wanton – Friend of a few years. We had a knock-down drag-out fight some time ago that ended the friendship, but we reconnected and while things will never truly be the same, we’re friends again. He had been a playmate and I’d had a couple “phone threesomes” with him and his wife. Right now we’re just friends without benefits.

A – One of my closest and dearest friends, either online or off. Unfortunately, it’s a friendship based online. He lives far away in England. We’ve been friends for many years now. We hope to meet one day. We’ve been naughty on occasion, but he has a live-in girlfriend now and our friendship is (and always has been) the most important thing.